of men and women

i have long since accepted the fact that men are seemingly strong but can be weak
and they fall
and they make a lot of mistakes
and they smell weird
and they can be stupid
and they are assholes sometimes
and they can make women's arguments seem invalid and illogical
and that with seemingly logical and oftentimes flowery words, they can turn women's heads and hearts around
and that they sometimes feel they are perfect, but they seem more perfect when they admit they are imperfect
and that if their hearts are in the right place and if they are after God's own heart, even with all the flaws mentioned above, they are still beautiful creatures

i have long since accepted that women are seemingly weak but can be supernaturally strong
and they fall
and they make a lot of mistakes
and they still smell nice even if they don’t take a bath
and they can be stupid
and they can be bitches sometimes
and they can make men's arguments invalid with just a word or two
and they can turn a man's head and heart with just a shy smile
and that they feel they are beautiful but they seem more beautiful when they don't flaunt their beauty
and that if their hearts are in the right place and if they are after God's own heart, even with all the flaws mentioned above, they are still beautiful creatures

men maybe from mars or women from venus
but in my head, we reside in one sphere
grace
it's what makes flawed and broken men and women
beautiful in our eyes

the battle between us may never end
too many wounds and scars have been inflicted
too many hearts have been broken
too many words have been released that can never be taken back
but at the end of the day, when all has been said and done
again, we are back to that place