They say that "time can heal the wounds of a broken heart"... maybe so. yet, it is depressingly to know that there are too many wasted time that pass us by before we finally decided to swallow our pride. I've learned the hard way that marriage & relationship is not always a guarantee that a couple who vowed to stay in love forever in each other will keep their promises... I've witnessed a lot of failed marriages & even the long-term relationships through my friends, not too distant relatives, and even my mom & dad and would you believed? even me is not exempted in the list =(... Funny but it gives me cold feet to decide to settle down. At the back of my mind lies a question - "why do people in love tend to give up without a fight?" well, easy for me to say because im not in that kind of situation before.. but you know what, eventhough i suffered the same fate in my past relationships, im still hoping that when i get married, when i met THE ONE.. mine will be a happy one & we may believe in staying for keeps..
Im not asking for a "perfect" romance & im not saying we don't have flaws. there were trials & storms along the way for sure but i know, we will weathered them all together. I will borrow a line from my favorite author quoted that: " Marital life is like two rough marbles rubbing together. There's plenty of friction & sometimes sparks. But as the years go by, the rough edges wear away & the one left w/ something smooth & beautiful" i believe in that, for me, in one relationship, there are moments that trials unbeatable, pains & sufferings are always on the side, challenges unbearable but it is the one meant to last a life time... I know, a lot of us undergoing a lot of difficulties in our own relationships, but i do hope this quote will help each one of us to realized what life & love really is...
" The road to a better life is thorny... no one dare says its easy getting up on our feet after a crippling fall. learn life the hard way, choose Love to rule.. for tomorrow opens forth a new life, the joy & happiness in being able to share that life with someone and for staying In Love & for KEEPING IT FOREVER..."
Holding On,
K C =)
LoVe &RoManCe
DesTiNy & FoReVer
a LiFeTiMe CoMm!tMeNt
Posted by KC on Friday, 11 November 2005 at 02:34 AM - on my Friendster's Blog
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